favourite things

yesterday.. as the little armies were sent off to their other camp by kereta kebal (their atok's car is cooler than mine) .. mom & i finally get to talk. the past fews we've been shouting and screaming and me, pinching when my patience has gone off limits.

so we were discussing everything, from marhaban to curtains to goodies to hantaran. i actually have no clue on what would make it as the hantaran. talking to caveman would vary from PSP to safety boots to DSLR to many other nonsense and we would end up laughing it all off.

so.. what makes this group of stuffs nicely made up in dulang and boxes and what have yous ..called hantaran?

is it ..

a) every other stuff you see other people give as hantaran...
i. handbags & shoes (though u buy em like practically every month lepas gaji),
ii. make up (which, in my case.. takes my mascara years to actually finish. lets not get into foundations. so wut m i to buy? 1 bakul of gloss?
iii. toiletries, perfume.. like i dun have enough?

b) practical things that you could've bought.. but wouldn't it be nicer if its given to u? like.. DSLR.. iPod.. PSP..Vaio? hee.

c) list of your favourite things.. this could be and endless list.. could even be something very ordinary.. but.. its your wedding.. it should be all about u aint it?

i realise guys have it easier.. cos the things we get for guys are the things they actually use.. and dont really buy all the time.. shoes, wallets, belts, toiletries.. samping..

so tell me.. what would you want on ur hantaran.. if you could turn back time? (my blog stalkers are all wifey.. i knowwwww)